This is very late in posting, but soccer season has finally come to an end for the girls.
I am happy for the lightened load in our schedule (no more practices Tues and Thurs nights, and no more Saturdays being tied up with games). But I have to admit...
I really loved soccer season.
I loved being outdoors and enjoying the fresh air.
I loved watching the girls run and play (especially W since she was more 'into it' than T was...although T did kick it in gear in a few games, especially the last few, and then it was very exciting to watch her play and really give it her full effort).
I loved being around all the other soccer parents, many of whom I already knew, and getting a chance to get to know the parents of our kids' teammates/classmates who I didn't already know.
Even though I am
horrible with remembering names, I recognize faces and I really
want to get to know these parents and kids who my kids will likely be growing up with.
I want to be in on the 'ground floor' with these kids. I want them to think back when they are in high school and remember that they know me, "T or W's mom", from 'way back when', and
therefore, hopefully, will respect that relationship and be on their best behavior around me and my kids. If I am their homeroom mom when they are little, and always around as they are growing up, (at games/practices/events), then hopefully they will feel that connection to me as a trustworthy adult that they can come to if they need help. And even more importantly, maybe through my interaction with them through the years they will stay on the right track and not veer off into 'bad' territory. Maybe that is a lofty aspiration (I don't have special powers to keep them on the straight and narrow), but when I was a kid I remember looking up to my friends' parents and showing them respect. Part of that respect was to behave properly because I knew they all knew me and my parents, and nothing I did would be a secret...so I should be sure to always try to do the right thing.
(Now I am certainly not saying I was perfect as a kid. I wasn't. I did experiment, and thankfully learned I didn't want to go very far down those roads. But one time when I did mess up in public, and it was a friend's parent who saw me and alerted my parents to my suspicious behavior... although the barf in my bed later that night wasn't hard to miss, so my drinking fiasco wouldn't have been a secret for long anyway lol). The point is, if parents KNOW the kids in town, then they can help keep them on the right track. I want to be one of those parents that my kids' friends recognize and know whose parent I am, and therefore know that I am there...not only watching out for them, but watching them also.
Obviously, at this age (pre-k and 4th grade) its more of the former than latter, but as they grow older it may be the latter. Who knows, maybe that knowledge and history will help the kids make good choices. I hope so.
Anyway, all of this to say,
I really
enjoyed soccer season, but it is now over, and I am
also glad.
I like having weekends free again, and no more double practices twice a week during dinner time. It was fun and I hope W will do it again. T has already emphatically informed us that she will
not be playing again. That is ok. At least she tried it, and it turned out it wasn't something she wanted to continue with. T's difficulty was she didn't like running (soccer is a lot of running), and she hadn't grasped the competitive spirit of 'giving it all you've got' no matter what. That frustrated her dad and I (especially her dad). But at least she didn't quit, and she
did have some shining moments where she really did put forth the effort. Especially in the last two games. In fact in the last game she
almost got
two goals (but they were deflected away. She probably should have dribbled them in closer before going for the goal kick...but it was her first season, and I think she did good). She
did get one goal in the second game of the season. That was really exciting :) Obviously getting goals at her age group is a lot harder than in W's class, since W doesn't play against a goalie and T does. I'm still proud of her no matter what! I love her and think she did great.
W's soccer experience was alot different. W was the star of her team :)
Most of the other players hadn't played before, but this was her second season so she had a little bit of experience and therefore a better attention span for the game. At W's age, attention span can be a BIG detriment to any practice or game lol. She got tons of goals throughout the season totally about 26 I think. In fact, in one game she got 6 goals! She is super fast and is just a really great soccer player. I really hope she chooses to play again because I think she has potential if she wants to continue it. We told the girls we would pay them a dollar for every goal scored and if they got 2 goals in a game we would take them out for donuts. W was so funny, because after every goal she would immediately look over at us with a huge grin, give us the thumbs up sign, then hold up the number of fingers of how many goals she was on. lol. I think she was more excited about those donuts than anything else ha ha.
Anyway, she did great. They both did, and we are very proud of them. Here are some fun action shots from a game.
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| W taking the ball to the goal, in control the whole time :) |
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| Catching up and stealing that ball from the white team. |
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| Orange #1 is W. She is about to get that ball away from #8 and make a goal! |
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| T is on the far right, practicing before her final game. |
The 'away' field we play at has 2 amazing trees in the parking lot, that of course I had to take advantage of with some 'camera time'. I got a dozen or more
great shots! here are a few...
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| Here is W wrestling with/picking on Grandpa during T's game. |
After the game I got some great shots of T in the tree too...
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| These trees with their textures and shapes were just GREAT photo locations! |
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| Our family. Me in my 'soccer gear', Orange team colors and a ballcap to keep the sun out of my eyes (I NEVER wear hats!) |