Friday, October 30, 2009
A day at the track
Flower Garden
Pumkin Patch
Pumpkin Patch
It was really cute, when they were in line for the slides W would stand so close to T that u couldn't fit a slice of bread between them. In this picture she is holding her jacket, but half the time she actually held onto her leg. She was sort of scared by all the people I guess so she got as close to her big sis as possible :)
Look who's 4!
This is a shot of W giving the "thumbs up" sign because she like the fishing pole, tackle box, and hat her grandparents gave her :)
Fall Fun while camping
Thursday, October 29, 2009
posts for my faraway family
Fall leaves
Modest Mom
Then my friend Jen (I forgot how to do the link to show u her website) posted a comment about dressing your age and dressing "hip". So again it got me thinking about it. Lots of things in stores are cut "sexy-ish" instead of simply cut normal. So whatever u buy it often has this cleavage problem.
Then I changed my photo on Facebook with a funny shot W had taken of me. I didn't think it was sexy, infact, it was kinda goofy because my 3yr old took the shot and I was doing a "model pose". Well , anyway, someone commented that it was sexy, then my friend/brother, Chris said the same thing to me and he's like "I shouldn't look at a picture of Rene' and think its sexy, that's just wrong". He's right. I was embarrassed that it came across that way. (By the way, after the first friend commented, I changed the photo). I don't want to be "advertising" a "sex symbol" mentality to anyone. [Now don't get me wrong, I don't have a big head thinking I'm all sex goddess of the world or anything-not at all!] But my point is, its good to be sexy. But I think you should be sexy for your spouse... in private. Not for the world to see. I believe that whatever is under your clothes is for your spouse to enjoy, not for the world to look at and then consequently think about. In fact, here is an example... I used to enjoy watching Nick and Jessica on the Newlywed Show. I liked Nick alot because he reminded me of my husband Dan. He seemed down to earth and pretty basic--I especially liked the episode where he tried to rid their yard of bees himself instead of hiring a exterminator-hilarious! Anyway, when I saw some of the horribly revealing outfits Jessica would wear to red carpet events with him on her arm (and her boobs hanging out for EVERYONE to see), I lost respect for him. Because my thought was this. .. This is your wife. You should want to protect the private areas of your life that are just for the two of you. Not for the whole world to see and drool over. He seemed to like the fact that his wife's boobs were garnering so much attention-like it made him a better man for "catching" the prize. But I thought it just showed poor taste in that instead of keeping that part of her body for "his eyes only", he and her were galantly showing everyone.
So this is my point, I don't want to portray an image that causes anyone besides my husband to think anything about me, except that I am a wife, mom, and person. Not one of those "whoa, double take" moments like when I saw Jessica. Even if another woman sees a lady's boobs hanging out, you are like "whoa". I just think it should be kept between husband and wife the way I believe God planned it. We are to be a pleasure to each other. Two become one.
It also seems that I usually don't have a problem with this, but sometimes if I am around ladies who dress a little bit sexy I start to feel frumpy so then I start dressing a little bit more revealing. Wrong I'm sure. I don't want my girls to think its ok to wear a "playboy bunny" outfit for a costume party (for example) instead of something (ANYTHING) that would not be advertising. I'm sorry, but I think swimsuits are for swimming , not wearing out and around. Gymnasts wear leotards in the gym, not to the mall. Get my point.
So I want to set the example to dress appropriately, so that when my daughters get older and are more influenced (probably) by society's fashion, that they can still be cute without being revealing. I hope I do the right thing. They seem to already be aware because at home when I am tucking them in at night and wearing my nightgown they have commented "isn't that short?" (it goes to my mid thigh!) My thought was, gosh I'm at home, no one is seeing me but my family (and I don't have sons!) this shouldn't be a big deal. But it seems like I need to wear a robe or something because even in my nightgown I think they are learning that it shows too much(for public of course) I just didn't think it showed too much for home. Guess I've got something to learn. Anyway, so these are my confusing thoughts for the last several days... setting a good example and being happy and comfortable with my ensemble, not trying to "keep up" with the rest of society who are "showing it off", and all the while still being fashionable and not dowdy. I know it can be done, I guess I just need to make a better effort at it, and only buy things that really fit my "modest style" instead of caving in and buying stuff that isn't as high-cut as I would prefer it to be, just because I think its the only thing out there. I bet if I keep looking , I'll find the stuff I'm looking for and won't have to alter my principles in the process.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
I love laundry
Then, once babies started coming, I REALLY started liking laundry even more. Who doesn't love looking at all those cute little clothes and booties?! As they get older it doesn't get any less fun, I still like pulling their clean clothes out of the dryer and hanging them up. Strange, but true. I guess its my transferrance of how much I enjoyed playing with Barbies as a kid. But they are life-size now and I still get to dress them up-how great is that?! :)
Anyway, this is the preview to say my new washer and dryer (and replacement dishwasher) got delivered last week. Unfortunately it was the day before we left on a camping trip so I didn't get to "break them in" too much. Dan laughed at me, because while we were camping I told him how much I was looking forward to doing laundry in my new w/d once I got home--ha ha, isn't that sick? oh well. I still haven't had time to read the manuals (which I will do soon), but I've done lots of loads of laundry and LOVE my new set. The best part is that there is a "delay start" option. (which possibly all front loads have but I didn't know about) For years I've been saying how great it would be to have a delay option on the washer so u could set it to wash the clothes right before u got home from work and then u could toss them in the dryer when u walked in the door (instead of them sitting all day wet in the washer and winding up smelling like mildew). Anyway, mine has this option and its cool. Of course I had to use it, so I set it to start the laundry at 5am so it would be done by the time I got up and I could toss it in the dryer. However, I didn't tell my husband I had done this, so one morning when he was leaving for work, he heard water and he was searching all over for a leak until he realized at last that I was doing a load of laundry on the "delay start" ha ha. Too funny. Anyway... love the new appliances and love the salespeople who helped me and gave me such a great discount!
I have LOTS more to write about and say, but time has left me and I still have to hop on the treadmill, get a shower and make dinner and head to church to teach the nursery... so I will have to save the rest for future posts. Have a great day....I am, I've already done several loads of laundry ;)
Sunday, October 18, 2009
appliance shopping
But to cut this short (not really but I still have alot to say), Dan is getting ready for bed, so I need to turn this off and go to bed too so he doesn't get grumpy. (that was for u Dan-but u know its true!) :)
Anyway, tomorrow the girls will be at grandma's so after I finish work (early I hope) I am planning on heading to the appliance stores again to brave the overload of information and try to choose one and be done with this. Wish me luck.
Oh, by the way, my stupid scale says I gained 5 pounds. I'd say "what's the deal with that?!" but I know the "deal with that" is all the cookies and ice cream I've been eating lately. ggggrrrrr! Wish I was naturally skinny like high school and could eat ANYTHING all the time and not HAVE to work out (just do it when or if I wanted to). But I guess age, babies, and a slower metabolism have changed all that. Such is life.
Sunday, October 11, 2009
screaming till my throat hurts
I woke up in the morning to find that my dog, Lucy, (who doesn't like to go potty outside when its raining) had pee'd on the floor again. Ugh! However, in finding the pee (right next to the doggy door!) I was confused as to why the dog door cover was lying askew on the floor and her crate was all cockeyed crooked, and that when I did finally let her back in the house after kicking her out, she was sniffing all around the edge of the dryer which is right next to her dog door, and which is where her dog door cover is usually stashed when the dog door is "open". I thought that odd, and I peaked back there but didn't see anything.
Then I started finding what I hoped were not (but actually knew they were) mouse droppings in the house. In the entryway tile, in the kitchen, in the pantry. So for about a day I sort of pretended we didn't have a mouse, because I really didn't want one. I also was reminded of that Friends episode where Phoebe lets the mouse live in her apt and sets out food for it and it does not harm anything. I'm thinking, maybe its not really here, and if it is , its so tiny it can't do much harm, right? (WRONG).
Friday Lucy goes to the vet all day for shots and a teeth cleaning, when I pick her up and bring her home she starts going nuts sniffing along all the bottom edges of the kitchen cabinets. (You do know there is a gap between the kickboard and the cabinets, right?) So I KNOW that would be a good mouse hiding place, and based on Lucy's behavior I KNOW its in there. (Plus I had just picked up some more mouse turds off the kitchen floor, so it had to be near!)
Well, Dan is out of town (hunting in KS) and I do not want to have this mouse get out of control, and I am getting more anxious by the moment. So that evening I head out and buy some mouse traps. However, I don't really want to deal with the snap kind, so I buy these super sticky things. (Not realizing that if it catches the mouse, it will still be alive and THEN what will I do?!)
Anyway, set them out along the base boards and one in the pantry that night. No luck. Saturday morning I load the dishwasher , turn it on and head upstairs to do some work. I come down later because something the girls and I are baking is ready and I find the floor covered in water. The dishwasher (which is only 2years old!) is leaking all over the floor and its leaked through the back of the cabinet into the carpet in the living room-GGRRRR! What's the deal???!!!! Of course Dan is still gone and I'm thinking this is just great (of course that was sarcasm). So... clean it up, turn it off, can't pull it out to look behind it so leave a msg on Dan's phone telling him we have a dishwasher problem now too(last night I left him a msg about our mouse problem).
Still no mice in our traps either.
Well, Dan comes home that evening and he pulls off the kickboard on the washer and lo' and behold, what do we find????? That stupid mouse has chewed TWO HOLES in the plastic tub of the dishwasher. Reason for leak ... found!! GGRRRRR!
Go to store, buy more mouse traps. This time the kind that SNAP!
Set them out, one in the pantry, one under the dishwasher (I don't want to set them out in the open because I don't want Lucy to set them off sniffing the peanut butter).
I go to sleep dreaming about getting that mouse. All the while hoping it is just one, and that it gets caught asap. I don't even want to get a new dishwasher or get it fixed till he's gone because I don't want him to chew thru the fixed one!
First thing Dan and I both do when we wake up is check the traps. No luck.
Then I notice Lucy is sniffing at the couch. So I go and check it out. Our couch is a sectional that latches all together, so its not movable by one person and its actually a pain(I'll never buy another sectional-too hard to clean underneath it, which I didn't realize when I bought it). But I peer behind it and I don't see much, except one of T's magazines has fallen back there so I reach in and pull it out. Only to see that its been chewed through and there is poop on the carpet right next to the couch, and the light cord that runs back there is semi-chewed through too. AND the dog is still going nuts sniffing at the couch!
So... I get another snap trap and set it (this does take awhile because I don't know what I'm doing-I even had to go look at the ones Dan had set so I could figure it out ha ha). Anyway, I set it and put it behind the couch where I found the magazine and poop. We then put the dog outside and leave for church.
We come home and check all the traps they are all empty... except the one behind the couch is flipped over and appears to have a mouse in it. We pull it out only to find no mouse! Crud! We were very excited, only to be let down...how could he have gotten out?! Those things snap so quickly and so hard it should have certainly caught him!
Well, Dan decides we better pull the couch out and see whats under it...he starts to pull out the other end and "AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH", T and I scream as we see a HUGE, and I mean HHHHUUUUUGGGGEEEEEE field mouse laying there dead. Ick, gives me the shivers just thinking about it. Yuck! However, Hooray for it being DEAD! :)
I was expecting to find little 1-2 inch long tiny mice. NOT a giant goliath that was at least 6 inches long! Dan teased me that I was scared of it running across my face while sleeping, which I really wasn't because I figured it was so tiny and probably was just in the kitchen. Little did I know that it was this HUGE MONSTROSITY that would have suffocated me if it had run across my face at night-ick!
The only thing we can think (since we set out no poison) is that he got hit in the head when it snapped and he was so big he didn't really fit in it, so he ran off as far as he could but his head injury was fatal (ha ha) and he died six feet away from where he was struck in the head by the trap.
All the other traps are still set, but I truly hope that it was the only one and we are done with this fiasco.
Looking back, I think it must have come in the dog door Thursday night and maybe Lucy had chased it a bit and that's why her door and crate were all askew and why she was sniffing behind the dryer, because she had chased it back there. Then it moved into the kitchen where she sniffed it and it made itself a bit of a bed under our couch. Hopefully this is the end of this story. However, I DO need to call a repairman and find out how much it will cost to fix the dishwasher, or if its almost better to just buy a new one. The thing that stinks is that this one IS a new one (I had it installed exactly 2 years ago, so it really stinks that its now broken) Can I say "UGH" just one more time?... UGH!
The only positive thing (except that the mouse is dead) is that T and I did the dishes together last night, and it was really fun. Reminded me of doing the dishes every night with my brother when we were growing up. Anyway, I hope this is the end to my mouse story. Oh, by the way, the title is true, because my throat is now killing me after screaming my head off when we found it. (I consoled myself with a nice cool coconut popsicle-kinda like tonsilitis right?) :)
Saturday, October 3, 2009
W bullriding
Here is W on her turn on the bull too. She is smiling her camera-smile the whole time-too cute! They sure do look like little cowgirls don't they? Well, maybe not, but still cute :)
While we were there we saw baby piglets that were one day old-they were so pink and cute! We also saw a sow about to give birth, but she didn't do it while we were standing there-I really wanted to see that newborn piglet, oh well. Maybe next year.
at the fair
Just got home from the fair. We had front row seats at the Disney ice show. It was very good. W is at the perfect age for it now, she sat there completely enthralled by it all. So cute. Very good costumes and choreography, and good show all around. We've gone every year since Nemo (about 4-5 yrs now), and enjoy them all. Last year it took us an hour (!) to find parking, and we were late for the show. This year I planned to give us plenty of time, but left later than hoped so we only had 1 1/2 hrs till show time, traffic was BACKED up, I was fretting, but praying "God, please give us a good parking spot quickly so the girls don't have to walk a mile to the show and we aren't late". I almost pulled out of line and went to park in the driveway of a house that appeared to have a condemned sign on the door (no one lives there right?) but thought better of it and said, no that wouldn't be the right thing to do, and I need to put my trust in God, not this illegal driveway. We get all the way in, and it looks bad, however, I see a car pull out (but I can't drive over the concrete barracade to get to it (although I did contemplate it)) and there are 5 cars in front of me so I'm thinking there is no way that spot will still be open. Then we get to that area, and the worker asks if we are there for the ice show, I show him my tickets and he lets us in that special parking lot (!yippee!) (previous yrs this wasn't reserved for ice show people, u just had to hope to find one before the show started) so I pull in and get the spot in the front row that I had seen ! THANK YOU GOD! we were even 15 minutes early! (and believe me as I was sitting in traffic for the last 45 min, I was counting down every minute and block, thinking how I had wished I had left the house sooner) but God provides-(even parking spaces) thankyou!
This video is of T riding the "bull" check out her face, its hilarious!
Friday, October 2, 2009
No training wheels!
Here is W riding her bike for the first time with no training wheels! woohoo! So exciting. She wants to go riding almost every evening after dinner. She is FAST too-kinda scary almost. She did fall really bad last week though and scuffed up her chin a lot, but the bandaid is now off and she is doing much better. Still riding :)
flying kites
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Sept 09 Secret Keeper, by rene holcomb
I'd like to share my Snapfish photos with you. Once you have checked out my photos you can order prints and upload your own photos to share. I uploaded this from my snapfish album. If you click on the photo it takes u to snapfish's page where u can see the whole album. Its free, all u have to do is create a password if u don't have a snapfish account already.
These pictures were taken as we were getting ready to go to the Secret Keepers event. Then more pix at dinner prior. You'll notice W striking a pose with the big girls while still at our house-she wanted to go so bad :( We had a lot of fun and it was a great event to talk to young girls about dressing appropriately and modestly but still cute and "fashionable". It taught about loving yourself because God created YOU just as u are. He thinks you are perfect, so you should too :) I plan on taking T (and W when she is older) every chance I get-hopefully they will come back every year. It was a very fun event and I got to meet some more friends of MY friends Rachel and Jen. So it was fun to have "lady-talk" while the kids ate dinner :) Gotta love some adult conversation once in a while :)